Don’t leave it until it’s too late

Today, I received the news that a friend of nearly 20 years had passed away. The only comforting information was that she was surrounded by her family in her final moments.
Selfishly, I’m coming here to write, because I’ve been blocking myself from thinking about it too much since I found out.
But I need to get it out of my head, so here I am.
After I received the text, I wrote a Facebook post so that anyone I didn’t have the phone number for, but might have known her, would see the post and know the latest. Which feels so cold in a way, and a horrible way to find out, but at the same time, I suppose I can forgive myself for not exactly thinking clearly today.…








